Be Confident (The Brother’s Keeper #61)


Dear Y.B.M.,

In this world, it is easy to feel as though you are inferior. It is easy to go through life with a lack of confidence weighing you down. It is easy to think that other people are better and that they have it all together.

However, God wants you to be confident. When I talk about confidence, I am not talking about being cocky. I am not talking about being proud. I am not even talking about self-esteem, which our society loves to talk about instilling in young people today. Rather, I am talking about knowing who you are in God.

And who are you?

You are a child of God, made in His image. That alone should give you confidence. But, beyond that, if you have received Jesus Christ into your heart as your Savior, you have also been forgiven of all of your sins and you no longer stand before God in a state of condemnation, but in a state of righteousness. Thus, your flaws and your failures no longer have to hold you down.

The Biblical terms for confidence carry the meaning of putting one’s trust or faith in something or someone else. Some people put their trust in money, human knowledge, physical strength, or other people. But, a truly confident person puts his trust in God. Notice how Jeremiah describes this individual: “Blessed is the man that trusteth in the Lord, and whose hope the Lord is. For he shall be as a tree planted by the waters, and that spreadeth out her roots by the river, and shall not see when heat cometh, but her leaf shall be green; and shall not be careful in the year of drought, neither shall cease from yielding fruit.“

When your confidence is rooted in trust in God, you do not have to fear people, circumstances, or the devil. Second Timothy 1:7 states, “God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” Your confidence or lack thereof is a matter of what is going on in your mind. If you have the sound mind that comes from a relationship with God, when things get out of hand around you, you can remain even-keeled. In every situation, you can say with the writer of Hebrews: “We boldly say, The Lord is my helper, I will not fear what man shall do unto me.”

If your trust and faith is in God, you have no reason to be afraid in this life. You have no reason to think less of yourself. You have no reason to feel as though you cannot do great things with your life. You can.

Be confident,

Daniel Whyte III

P.T. (Power Thoughts):

Jon Walker said, “Our confidence is not in our ability but in God’s ability.”

Stephen Curry said, “I’ve always believed that success for anyone is all about drive, dedication, and desire; but for me, it’s also been about confidence and faith.”

Jack Canfield said, “People who ask confidently get more than those who are hesitant and uncertain. When you’ve figured out what you want to ask for, do it with certainty, boldness and confidence. Don’t be shy or feel intimidated by the experience. You may face some unexpected criticism, but be prepared for it with confidence.”

Martin Luther said, “Faith is a living, daring confidence in God’s grace, so sure and certain that a man could stake his life on it a thousand times.”

Marcus Garvey said, “With confidence, you have won before you have started.”

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